The Pretension of Love... a current day scenario

Love!! So what love actually is? Is this a feeling or is this something we find as we need it. Does it happen or we ignite… A lot of things may be asked as question….

Yes love is a feeling which starts in our heart and ends in our soul. But is this really what love is? The answer can’t be a straight forward one. This is not the days of Shakespeare now; not even the days of Romeo and Juliet; it’s the era of the current lovers who really don’t know what love exactly is. The love goes on switching from one person to another till everything is finished. Love is no longer a divine or pious. Actually it is not true 100% but most of the times it is. In these days I say. The metros have imbibed this culture of devil love just like a virus.

People don’t want to wait for their perfect match or love to happen… they want to fall in it as soon as possible. Having a boyfriend or a girlfriend has become more or less like a fashion. “Yes I have a girlfriend”, every boy wants to say this and every girl… just the opposite. In metropolitan cities people change their love as clothes now a days. Playboys and tomboys play with the hearts and go on their way. They are the ones who have the last laugh. They have the perfect wiles to win hearts which is not there in a good boy/girl. They are not even able to express their true love and remain silent fallacy wins most of the times. Now love has become dissolute. no one wants to take admonation from good friends or even parents.

I wonder what have parents done wrong. They keep on loving their siblings but the children take these kind of decision to spoil their life and parents' status. Society is becoming a n enimy as if. Is this really necessary to have a counterpart? If it is so then why not to use the brain to find someone who is fit. The fact remains that 73% of the devorces that take place is between them who have a love marriage..... Though it is the heart that falls in love but after that also one must use his/her brain so that these upcomings won't come. Zaniness should not win over wisdom. It is good falling in love but not to fall for love. An unanimous catcry that has overshadowed the youth these days must not spoil the society. There should not be a competition in the youth for having a boyfriend or girlfriend as happening these days.

If all want to live a halcyon life then this stupidity must not prevail. Although true love has not died. There are a lot of comitted couples who actually love each other but even more are there who are are couples for the shake of being a couple.... Which is farcical....... CRAZE IS NOT ALWAYS GOOD>>>.... The people who pretend to be in love must realise what actual love is and must think before leaping in the holy world of love......

The Obama Effect

Mr Barack Obama is the name the world is going crazy these days. But is he worth it. may be he is . But what makes the whole world follow his steps day by day? He is the president of USA, is it the only reason. For me its no. May be that its one of the reasons, but not the main.

Its what I have got from all the happenings, its because he is black. Yes it is.. I know many may feel it a sour soup to drink but it has to be drunk. I followed everything regarding his life. He has just not become so famous overnight. He is not a star son or a son of a president as Mr. Bush, he was rather a drunkard and drug addict. But he is so composed that he has become a man with a lot of importance. He has gone in the range of great legend like Mr. Lincoln. His life is a tableau of a man of a person coming from a very low profile to the most powerful person in world. Although he is dormant till now, but still he has a lot of time in his hand. He has a lot of expectations from not only the Americans but the whole world. Although he was never a soigne but he himself has made him so strong that no one can ever know. But still there is a dearth of a good leader in him till now. He is so far ineffective and hopefully it will not continue. He is somewhat like our Aurangzeb who had a lot of ideas but without having proper execution plan. But it will be too early to say about him now. His polite appearance and real powerful speeches make him even more special. "We can and we will", the strong statement made by him is binding all hope of the world.

As Indians, neighbouring people of Pakistan,we should have to be optimist about the happenings. And if we try to do anything more then we should we will be in a fix i suppose. Let us keep our fingers crossed..................