The Pretension of Love... a current day scenario

Love!! So what love actually is? Is this a feeling or is this something we find as we need it. Does it happen or we ignite… A lot of things may be asked as question….

Yes love is a feeling which starts in our heart and ends in our soul. But is this really what love is? The answer can’t be a straight forward one. This is not the days of Shakespeare now; not even the days of Romeo and Juliet; it’s the era of the current lovers who really don’t know what love exactly is. The love goes on switching from one person to another till everything is finished. Love is no longer a divine or pious. Actually it is not true 100% but most of the times it is. In these days I say. The metros have imbibed this culture of devil love just like a virus.

People don’t want to wait for their perfect match or love to happen… they want to fall in it as soon as possible. Having a boyfriend or a girlfriend has become more or less like a fashion. “Yes I have a girlfriend”, every boy wants to say this and every girl… just the opposite. In metropolitan cities people change their love as clothes now a days. Playboys and tomboys play with the hearts and go on their way. They are the ones who have the last laugh. They have the perfect wiles to win hearts which is not there in a good boy/girl. They are not even able to express their true love and remain silent fallacy wins most of the times. Now love has become dissolute. no one wants to take admonation from good friends or even parents.

I wonder what have parents done wrong. They keep on loving their siblings but the children take these kind of decision to spoil their life and parents' status. Society is becoming a n enimy as if. Is this really necessary to have a counterpart? If it is so then why not to use the brain to find someone who is fit. The fact remains that 73% of the devorces that take place is between them who have a love marriage..... Though it is the heart that falls in love but after that also one must use his/her brain so that these upcomings won't come. Zaniness should not win over wisdom. It is good falling in love but not to fall for love. An unanimous catcry that has overshadowed the youth these days must not spoil the society. There should not be a competition in the youth for having a boyfriend or girlfriend as happening these days.

If all want to live a halcyon life then this stupidity must not prevail. Although true love has not died. There are a lot of comitted couples who actually love each other but even more are there who are are couples for the shake of being a couple.... Which is farcical....... CRAZE IS NOT ALWAYS GOOD>>>.... The people who pretend to be in love must realise what actual love is and must think before leaping in the holy world of love......